| Location | 39 Weeks Gestation |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 23/09/2007 |
| Date of Death | 23/09/2007 |
| Visitors | 3,145 since 29/11/2007 |
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Hayden Thomas Gray born 23 September, a sunny Sunday @ 7.08pm weighing 7.5lbs. He was born with black curly hair & lovely soft skin. First born to Francesca O'Connor & Ian Gray.
Pregnancy with Hayden was a breeze. I had no sickness & not an ache or pain. One day he just didnt move so being alarmed I went into hospital where they did tests to try & find the heartbeat. after what feels like an eternity we were told he had died & we wouldnt find out until an autopsy report, that was a Thursday. I was induced on the Saturday & had Hayden on the Sunday, I remember it being a gorgeous day out & hoped that the baby would prove the doctors wrong & come out screaming but he didnt. He was beautiful & I couldnt believe we had to give him back after so many months of dying to meet him. He was the image of Ian, chubby little cheeks, creamy skin & a head of curly hair. He stayed with us that night & we went home the following day. We took him home the Tuesday were he spent his last night with us. We held him constantly & took millions of pictures. Hayden was buried the Wednesday, the day before his due date - 26 September 2007.
An autopsy report told us that Hayden had died to Fetomaternal Transfusion. Its were a vessel in the placenta suddenly pops & the baby bleeds out into the mother. Its exremely rare & happens mostly to women who have been in accidents such a car crash but that wasnt the case with me. I didnt fall or get a bang, it was just one of those things.
We miss him
where have the years gone?.....
The years are coming far too quick my little angel. Its now 4 years & cant believe we've come this far since you left us. Missing you all the time & talk about you all the time.
Love always & forever, ♥ Mammy, Daddy, Reuben, Morgan & Charlie ♥ xxxxxx
Cant believe............
I cant believe it will be three years tomorrow little man. The boys will always have a big brother up in heaven watching over them. We miss, love & think of you loads. Love Mammy, Daddy, Reuben, Morgan & Charlie xxxxx
still missing you...
Hayden
Still missing you always & being pregnant again brings back a lot of memories but I know your watching over all of us & your so proud of your baby brother.
Love Mammy & Daddy xxxxx
Loving & missing you always....
Happy Christmas my angel Hayden, always loving &thinking of you
Love Mammy, Daddy, Reuben & the bumps xxxxx
Missing you.....
Morning little man, it would've been two years to the day we found out the terrible news that we had lost you. It still makes me cry, I still remember every detail so well. Missing you so much!!!
Love Mammy, Daddy & little bro Reuben xxx
Not forgotten..........
Havnt written in a very very long while, I think it gets a lot harder as time goes on but we miss you so much & you would be so proud of your little brother he's crawling everywhere so up to lots of mischief. We reckon he'll walk any day soon.
We wont be here for your 2nd anniversary, we'll be over with Jenny but still with family. Thinking of you a lot & cannot believe its been a year
Mammy, Daddy & Reuben xxx
Missing you so very much
Hayden hope you know mammy & daddy miss you so much, especially since we now have your little bro here with us. He keeps us busy but we think of you every day & wish we could all be together.
Sometimes when I think of you it gets me down & sad but I only have to look at your brother & the pictures we have of you & I smile again.
Missing & loving you lots & lots
mammy, daddy & Reuben xxx
Happier New Year...
Hey Hayden!
Sorry I have'nt been to visit you in so long... I hope you could see me there on Christmas Eve?? I think of you all the time, I hope you know that too?
Yes we have Reuben now but I wish you were here too... He looks a little bit like you sometimes. He's so cute! Your mam will tell that you got her good looks but you's both defo got mine:-) Only joking!
Your mammy&daddy I know think of you all the time, never forget that! Mammy's just so busy changing your little brothers dirty nappys @ the moment but they both love you so much&always will!
Keep them safe - all 3 of them...
Love you always x x x x
IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven
and bring you back again
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one will ever know
But know we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store
Since you'll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within or hearts
Is where you'll stay
LOVE & MISS YOU ALWAYS HAYDEN,
ANUTY CAITRIONA
xXxXx
missing you always.....you havnt been forgotten
Your brother came the 2 September 08 @ 19:47. I know you were looking over him through the whole event of the day keeping him safe. Missing you,
love mammy & daddy
xx
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